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Funeral Flower Etiquette



The Difference between Funeral Flowers & Sympathy Flowers is more than just Semantics. The aim of this article is to help individuals through the process of communicating heart felt sympathies to families. Whether you are sending funeral flowers to a residence, church, cemetery, or funeral home, the etiquettes are laid out below.
Are you thinking about sending flowers to a residence?

If so, just so you know, it is now called sympathy flowers. Sympathy flowers are different than funeral flowers as they do not have the typical funeral feel of a large flower arrangement. Rather, sympathy flowers are made in such a fashion that they fit perfectly in size to sit on a table, a counter, or the inside entrance of the home. The most popular flower arrangements for this purpose are white though it is not uncommon to send more colorful flower arrangements to residences.

The intent of sending "sympathy flowers" is to provide a moment of distraction for the recipient in a time of grief. Yes, that distraction is just for a moment but sometimes that moment is exactly what the grief stricken recipient needs. The beauty & the scent of the flowers have a special way of touching our human senses. A wonderful thanksgiving flowers floral company that has provided flowers for years knows just how to accommodate that need.

Are you thinking about sending flowers to a Funeral Home?

If so, the intent here is to send a big enough flower arrangement that it is visible no matter where one is sitting or standing at the service. Funeral flower sprays and funeral flower hearts are usually hand made by a floral designer hours before the funeral service. Each floral design is hand-crafted by an experienced floral designer who has your heart felt grief in mind while making the flower arrangement. Most florists know how important it is to express your sympathy sentiments in a meaningful way through sending funeral flowers.

What about a sending plant?

The other item that makes for a good cemetery product is a blooming plant or green plant. Plants are often sent services because they are easy to transport back to the residence. Out of all plants, the Spathiphyllum otherwise known as the Peace Lilly is probably the most popular. The other popular plant is a blooming white or pink Azalea. The braided Tree Azalea is also popular. A good place to browse these type of products would be at your local florist. Some florists have their nursery license so you'll want to check to see if they have a "plant" area.


Are thinking about sending flowers to a church?

If so, it is recommended that you order flowers like a standing spray as they are tall enough to be seen by those who may be sitting toward the back of the pew area. The other item you may want to consider buying is an arrangement to go in front of the podium. Moreover, another often overlook flower arrangement spot is in the church foyer as it makes people feel a little bit more comfortable as they walk in. Usually on Mother's Day, you will find many churches passing out mothers day flowers from this foyer area. In many churches, this same practice occurs for Valentine's Day in the passing of Valentines flowers.

Are you thinking about sending flowers to a cemetery?

If so, it is recommended that you order a standing spray as they are completely appropriate for that type of venue. A good place to look at different designs is at a particular florist. The standing sprays are arranged on a tripod that stands about 52 inches off the ground to the middle of the arrangement itself. Some standing sprays have bows and some do not, so as you browse through all the florists catalogs you can make decisions.